What is a Headstone?
To commemorate a loved one who has passed away, you may want to consider fitting a headstone on their grave. This guide explains how to choose a memorial headstone, from the shape and design to the commemorative message.
A memorial headstone is a slab of stone that’s set up at the head of a grave. Also known as a tombstone or gravestone, this type of memorial can have inscriptions on, for example, the deceased’s name, date of birth, and date of death.
To commemorate a loved one who has passed away, you can send us a commemorative message for the headstone on their grave.
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How to choose a Headstone
If you would like to choose a headstone to commemorate your loved one, you will need to consider:
Cemetery Rules and Regulations
In the UK, there are certain rules and regulations cemeteries put in place regarding memorial headstones. Whether the cemetery is owned by the council or is private property, it’s important to get an understanding of the regulations before you choose a headstone.
The main rule is to wait before having the headstone fitted. Depending on the burial site, you could be waiting from between six weeks to 12 months for the earth to settle.
You may also be restricted on the type of stone available because this depends on the location you choose. Often, cemeteries will have certain restrictions or preferences about headstone material. If you want to find out more about your chosen cemetery’s regulations, your local Funeral Director can advise you on these.
Headstone Designs
Once you’ve decided which material you would like, you’ll need to think about the design of the headstone. You can choose from any of the following:
- Upright headstones: A traditional choice, fixed to the ground with a concrete base.
- Flat headstones: These are laid flush or slanted on the ground.
- Kerbed headstones: These are laid full length on the ground, they are a minimum of 4 inches thick, and offer more room for floral tributes.
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